The Ritual of Our Chaos: An Ode to Holiday Family Traditions #WriteAPageADay #630

I. The Arrival of Ghosts in Ugly Sweaters

The bell screams,
the door swings,
and here they come—
lumbering through thresholds like nostalgia uninvited,
carrying casseroles of regret,
potluck sins baked at 375°F,
with a sprinkle of forced cheer.

"You're taller!" says an uncle, measuring me against last year’s memory,
as if bones stretch only when noticed.
Cousins, nameless until name tags find their chests,
shove past, eyeing desserts before greetings,
a sugar-fueled stampede of forgotten faces.

Grandmother, a human metronome, taps her spoon,
a conductor of the cacophony,
chiming the start of—
what?
A ritual?
A battlefield?
A seasonal fever dream in which we play roles
assigned long before we were born?

II. Feast of the Familiar

In the kitchen,
flour clouds the air like ancestral dust.
We bake the same pie from the same recipe,
with the same error—
too much cinnamon,
too much time,
not enough silence.
Grandmother watches,
wrinkles deepening like the folds in phyllo dough,
layers of past holidays pressed into her skin.

"Stir clockwise," she warns,
"or the spirits will visit tonight."

But we are spirits, aren’t we?
Haunting these hallways once a year,
occupying spaces we left behind
in the name of progress,
only to return,
spoon in hand,
pretending the food still tastes like it did
when we were children.

III. The Gift Exchange: A Study in Performative Generosity

Wrapped illusions stack beneath a plastic pine,
ornaments like crystallized conversations—
delicate, fragile, easily shattered by wrong words.

Gifts are currency,
wrapped in expectations,
tied with ribbons of obligation.
We smile through exchanges:
a candle for an aunt I don’t remember liking,
a book for a cousin who never reads,
a scarf for the uncle who never feels cold.
A sweater two sizes too small,
a gadget no one knows how to use,
a re-gifted mug from last year’s mistake.

"Just what I wanted,"
we say in unison,
a choir of well-rehearsed deception.

IV. Table Manners & Wars Unspoken

At dinner, the table is an arena,
forks and knives our weapons,
words sharper than any carving knife.

Grace is said—
hands held, eyes closed,
but some pray for patience instead of blessings.
The turkey is dissected,
but so is the past:
"You remember when you..."
"You never called after..."
"Last year, you said..."

The mashed potatoes absorb tension like a sponge,
the gravy smooths over cracks in our conversations,
the cranberry sauce stains everything,
red as old wounds.

Still, laughter escapes like steam from a too-hot dish,
bubbling, breaking, healing in bursts.
We sip wine, we spill secrets,
we pretend we aren't the same people
who left this table broken last year.

V. Post-Feast Migration & Ghosts of Traditions Past

Bellies full, hearts heavy,
we migrate to couches,
a slow, defeated exodus.

The TV flickers,
not for watching,
but for the illusion of company
when words run dry.
Football plays to no audience,
classic films rerun memories we didn’t live.

Somewhere, a child falls asleep in a lap not their own,
a mother brushes back hair that smells like nostalgia,
a grandfather snores through the noise,
dreaming in black and white,
where his own childhood ghosts linger.

The fire dies, embers fade,
someone suggests a walk,
but no one moves—
we are too full,
too tired,
too tethered to the warmth of ritual.

VI. Departure: The Great Undoing

Coats are pulled from hooks,
boots stomped into submission.
Hugs are given,
some tight, some obligatory.

“We should do this more often,”
someone lies.
“Yes,” another echoes,
knowing we won’t.

The door creaks open,
a gasp of cold air sucks us back to reality.
Cars hum to life,
taillights blink like fireflies in the night.
And as tires crunch over snow and gravel,
I watch the house shrink in the mirror,
wondering if next year,
we will all return.

Or if the ghosts in ugly sweaters
will finally rest.

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