11 Most Common Romantic Relationship Spoiler Behaviors

There are a variety of behaviors that can be considered “spoilers” in a romantic relationship. Some examples include:

Cheating: Having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone other than your partner without their knowledge or consent.

Lying: Concealing important information or telling falsehoods to your partner.

Manipulation: Using deceit or manipulation to control or influence your partner’s actions or emotions.

Gaslighting: Making your partner doubt their own reality or memory through manipulation and deception.

Emotional withholding: Refusing to emotionally engage with your partner, or actively withholding emotions such as affection or support.

Being emotionally or physically abusive: Using physical or emotional tactics to control or harm your partner.

Infidelity: Having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone other than your partner without their knowledge or consent. This can include physical infidelity, emotional infidelity, or online infidelity.

Neglect: Ignoring your partner’s needs or not putting effort into the relationship. This can include things like not spending enough time together, not paying attention when they are talking, or not showing interest in their life.

Jealousy: Being overly possessive or controlling in the relationship. This can include monitoring your partner’s actions, interrogating them about their whereabouts, or becoming angry or upset if they spend time with friends or family.

Criticism: Being overly critical or negative towards your partner. This can include things like constantly pointing out their flaws or shortcomings, or belittling or undermining them.

Sabotage: Taking actions that intentionally harm or undermine the relationship. This can include things like flirting with other people, lying, or intentionally causing fights or conflicts.

It’s important to recognize that these behaviors can be harmful and can lead to a breakdown in trust and communication in a relationship. If you or your partner are engaging in any of these behaviors, it may be beneficial to seek help from a therapist or counselor.